Thursday, March 31, 2011

What A Wife Needs Most From Her Husband

Yesterday's message was about the husband and what he needs most from his wife. 
Ladies, i trust the message helped in some way. Today is about the wife and her needs.


Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church…” - Ephesians 5:25


Dr. James Dobson was asked, “Why are men so insensitive to women’s needs today?” 


He answered, “I question whether men have really changed all that much. I doubt if men ever responded as women preferred. Did the farmer of a century ago come in from the fields to say, ‘Tell me how it went with the kids today?' No. He was as oblivious to his wife’s nature then as husbands are today.” 


So, men, if you’re struggling to meet your wife’s needs, the Bible gives a few tips as to what they need: 


PHYSICAL AFFECTION:
Not just sex, but a tender touch-a few hugs all through the day. 


SECURITY:
A wife desires a sense of security, physically, financially and emotionally. 


UNDERSTANDING:
This means listening more than telling her what to do. 


LET HER KNOW SHE'S BEAUTIFUL:
She needs reassurance in a society of constant comparison. 


SPIRITUAL LEADERSHIP:
Not dictatorships, but servant leadership, like Christ for His church.


These are what a wife needs most from her husband. 


ONE MORE THING TO THE MEN AS A REMINDER.
I know those men who has a job arises very early and they sometimes feel that everything has to be given to them on a platter. Well husbands, this is what the word says:


Proverbs 31:15 "She also arises while it is yet night, and provides food for her household,..."


So remember, whether she's a housewife or work as an employee, remember Proverbs 31:15


In His love,


Leslene





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